3. Feeling A Relationship Ending
3、覺得感情關系走到盡頭
"When a woman feels that uneasy sense that a relationship is on the outs, by either her doing or his, she will often look to fill the void externally to soften the blow," Lee reasons for a woman"s infidelity. "If she is the one considering the breakup, she may be using this tactic as a challenge to herself both testing the waters, and then gauge if she can go through with it."
“當一個女性覺得這段感情快要枯萎,不管是自己還是對方所致,她可能會向外尋求慰藉來填補目前的空虛,使自己不至于受到太嚴重的打擊。”蕾妮在分析女性的背叛時,認為“如果她是那個想要分手的人,那她可能會用這種策略來挑戰自己同時探探風頭,然后尋思是否能這樣做。”
4. It"s Just Not Fun Anymore
4、生活沒有歡樂
...But it"s too hard to pull the plug. "When you don"t laugh, you don"t love. Laughter is one of the key elements in a relationship that often gets overlooked," Lee explains, simply. "When stresses of day to day life become the dominant factor in a relationship, women feel unhappy. When they come across a coworker, or friend that they have a good time with, it suddenly brings to light what is missing in their own relationship and becomes tempting to act upon."
...但卻很難停下來。“當你們之間沒有了笑聲,沒有了愛……歡笑是一段關系中很重要的元素,但卻經常被忽略。”蕾妮簡單地解釋道。“當緊張壓抑成為每天的主旋律時,女方會覺得不開心。當她們遇到一位可以共度美好時光的同事或朋友時,她們會突然發現這正是目前的感情關系里所沒有的,因而會甘愿冒險。”