"Be somewhere, betray is inevitable. When our body betrays us, surgery is also the key to recovery. When we betray each other, the past recovery is less clear. And there are some wounds, some betray they are so deep, so profound. But there is no way to repair what we were lost."
“有時(shí),背叛是無(wú)法避免的,當(dāng)身體背叛我們的時(shí)候,手術(shù)可以幫我們恢復(fù)。當(dāng)我們背叛彼此后,要想恢復(fù)就不那么容易,而有些傷害,背叛太深,影響太大。我們無(wú)法找回我們失去的。”
適用場(chǎng)合:我們會(huì)不會(huì)常常這樣想,如果心也能做手術(shù)就好了,如果心病也能醫(yī)治就好了。如果有朝一日,人人腦中都有SD儲(chǔ)存卡可以管理記憶,就能有一鍵刪除功能了……但是也是傷痛成就了現(xiàn)在的我們,如同電影《嫌棄松子的一生》中那句,“生而為人,對(duì)不起。”
“It has been said that time heals all wounds. I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue, and the pain lessens, but it is never gone。”
“人們都說(shuō)時(shí)間可以治愈一切傷口,我可不這么認(rèn)為。傷口是一直存在著的。隨著時(shí)間的流逝,出于保護(hù),傷口被覆蓋上疤痕,疼痛隨之減輕,但這一切永遠(yuǎn)也不會(huì)消失。”
適用場(chǎng)合:你們說(shuō),傷疤永遠(yuǎn)是傷疤,無(wú)比羞恥,卻又無(wú)比醒目。即使皮下組織流淌的血液都是新的,你已經(jīng)告別過(guò)去,往事隨風(fēng),但那道傷口永遠(yuǎn)提醒你——無(wú)法忘記的悲痛。
“People say there are five stages of grief. Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and Acceptance。”
“人們說(shuō)悲傷分為五個(gè)階段,抵觸,憤怒,掙扎,消沉和接受。”
適用場(chǎng)合:無(wú)論前期怎么掙扎,十年,二十年,三十年……時(shí)間總有辦法讓你臣服。